Monday, February 11, 2013

Get your game on!

You've been to charity events, and you've been to sports events - but have you ever been to a charity sports event? Can you imagine anything more fun than playing dodge ball, rock climbing, and jumping on enormous trampolines for a good cause? Thanks to B*CURED, you have the chance to do all of them on February 23rd! I am very passionate about non-profits, and this one is dear to my heart. I have too many friends who have lost loved ones to brain cancer. More research is needed, and it is needed now.

I recently sat down with 2 of the 4 event co-chairs, Kristin Duda and Karena Bailey, to talk about why they believe in this cause. Sadly, both of my dear friends lost their mothers to brain cancer. My heart aches for them, but I am so incredibly proud of all that they do to honor their mothers through B*CURED. For more information visit the B*CURED website. Come to the event. I will be there, and I'll be ready to play. Hope you will too! 


What is B*CURED? And why was it started? 

Kristin Duda (KD) - B*CURED is a volunteer non-profit organization based in Greenwich. It strives to find a cure for brain cancer by providing grants for innovative brain cancer research.  The name stands for Brain Cancer Understanding, Research, Education and Development.  The organization was founded in 2008 by Melissa Salame and Debbie Needle after each lost a parent to brain cancer. 

Having lost a parent to brain cancer - why were you drawn to this charity?

Karena Bailey (KB) - For starters, it was local. Therefore it felt reachable, but also powerful. After watching my mom suffer I knew I had to make a difference and B*CURED has let me do that.  I found the bigger brain cancer charities left little room for me to personally make a difference -- I could run a race or just raise money, but I had little involvement in where it went.

KD - When I moved out from NYC to Connecticut, I was looking for a charitable organization to give some of my time to that would be meaningful on a personal level.  Having lost my Mom when I was 16, I really wanted to honor her and put my time towards fighting this devastating disease.  Brain cancer isn't as widely talked about or known as other cancers, such as breast cancer and colon cancer, so it was hard to find an organization where I could do more than just send a check. I remember reading Greenwich Magazine after having moved to the area in the spring of 2008 and seeing a blurb about B*CURED. I emailed the founders Debbie and Melissa right away. After meeting them, I felt like it was fate, and I knew I wanted to team up with them and together we could help make a difference. 

KB - In 4 years with B*CURED, we have raised $400,000 all of which has awarded 8 research grants. Because of a special course of treatment using "glio wafers" that came out of the exact type of research we support through B*CURED, my mom lived 22 months (she was predicted to live only 9). If I can be a part of helping a scientist change the course of this disease, I feel like I am doing right by my mom. It is without a doubt incredible to know we can affect this disease.

KD - Since I've been involved, I have met some of the most amazing people who have also been affected by this disease.  While my hearts sinks when I meet someone else who has had to endure this disease, I also feel fortunate to have these new relationships in my life where we have this common bond.  

Why does research make a difference in the fight against brain cancer?  

KB - As I mentioned above, through various types of research, we may find something that will help someone survive. Unlike other cancers, patients are rarely willing to offer their brains to research. What these scientists do is crucial to changing the course of this disease. We understand that brain cancer and tumor patients are in desperate need of new effective treatments.  By funding innovative researchers, we can bring new treatments to patients as quickly as possible.

KD - Brain cancer research is sorely under-funded. I believe many of the greatest achievements in science and medicine have been driven by entrepreneurism and its these innovative researchers that can be a powerful force in advancing brain cancer research. I recall my grandmother traveling with my Mom to other countries to get access to new treatments and medicine, and I only wish we could accelerate research to find a cure as quickly as possibly.  

What will this year's event be like?

KB - Totally different from the standard cocktail party fundraiser. It's at Chelsea Piers with private access to the batting cages, trampoline room and rock wall. And we will host the event on an indoor turf. It is a tailgate meets Friday Night Lights. It will be fantastic! 

KD - We wanted to change up the expected charitable evening and make it a playful, fun evening for us adults to be like kids again. We have incredible food vendors participating including Station Eats, Melt Mobile, Food Design Catering, Medea Vodka and The Sweet Life. I am also especially excited about our auction since we have incredible donations this year and for the first time we have a live auction that will be led by Christie's.  One item that might steal the show is a vacation in a private residence on the exquisite island of Mustique - this is a trip of a lifetime!!!  Yankees fans, food aficionados, golfers and fly wheel enthusiasts, to name a few, will all be excited by our offerings. 

If you could be given any prize from the auction, what would it be?  

KB - MUSTIQUE!!!!!

KD - I know it sounds cheesy, but seeing us raise enough money for one or more research grants would be my biggest prize!  

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Why write?

When I considered starting a blog I realized two primary things. First, I missed having a voice. After working in TV for almost a decade - talking to news makers, politicians, and corporate leaders - I have spent the last 4 and a half years in the land of baby babble. I cherish (almost) every minute of my mommy time. My girls bring me joy. Joy that I didn't know you could feel once you were an adult. Silly, sweet, uncomplicated joy. I wouldn't trade my time with them for anything, but last year I realize that I missed a more adult dialogue.

The second reason I felt inspired to launch this blog was because I feel remarkably blessed to have so many incredible women, men, mentors, and friends in my life. They are people who make me wiser, kinder, and more balanced. I want all of you to know these superstars in my universe and their many talents. That is why I plan on sharing their voices with you. Starting tomorrow I will be regularly featuring interviews with people who inspire me. You can expect to hear from doctors, yogis, athletes, activists, acupuncturists, and entrepreneurs. Just to name a few...

Lastly, I feel I would be remiss if I didn't add something that has been weighing on my mind since I launched The Sentimentalist. As I have said before, what I share is my opinion. I NEVER EVER want my opinion to hurt or insult. My mantra is to be open, considerate, and respectful of other people's choices in life. My advice might not always be right for you, so please take what I write, and decide its relevance to your life and needs.

This is an open dialogue so email me if you have questions, aversions or ideas about what I am doing over here at The Sentimentalist. Thank you for reading and for making me feel like I once again have a voice.

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Five Friday Favorites

Just a few of my favorites...

Lashblast has been the love of my life for 4 years. She never runs, never clumps, and can even stand up to those hard to handle teary moments. She's tough.

This is my absolute favorite kid drink. Just a little bit sweet, and a lot hydrating. And besides, how can you resist a company that names their products "Appley Ever After" and "Goodness Grapeness"?


I fell for it. Two weeks ago at the hair salon I asked the stylist if I could use a little of this product. She kindly handed it over. I then asked if it was like Moroccan Oil. She replied, "It blows it out of the water." I tried it and was sold. It's divine. 


For Christmas I got a Casetagram. I chose the case design I liked most, and loaded it up with 28 of my absolute favorite Instagram photos. You can pick just one standout (like below) or collage a bunch (like I did). My pics are mostly of the girls - and my man. Now every single time I pick up my phone it makes me smile. 

For those mornings when you just don't have time to cook for the minis and yourself. I always keep a case of these in the closet. Fudge Graham is my favorite. Grab and go!







Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Sometimes...


To all of you moms and dads out there - I hope you have a peaceful day.

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

How do you say I love you?


I think that sometimes it is very nice to say I love you with jewelry. John knows this, and in fairness he knew this long before he proposed. Poor John... If you agree, I have created a nice little SentimentaLIST of some baubles and bargains you might want to pass along to whoever it is that will be spoiling you this Valentine's Day. And yes, I do know that it is nothing more than a Hallmark holiday. And no, I do not expect John to buy me jewelry on Hallmark holidays. But a girl can always dream can't she?????

So simple, and yet it says it all...


Endless combinations. I like that it is dainty, but the letters seem solid.

I would wear these with a simple black cocktail dress right now or an all white jeans ensemble all summer long. 

This piece is very current in emerald green (Pantone's official color of 2013). Perfect to dress up jeans and a simple sweater for winter days on the go.

I love that these studs can add a little edge to an otherwise understated look. I usually wear simple earrings and make a statement with necklaces and bracelets.

This braided band is perfect for stacking on the right hand or for wearing on days when you want to change it up from your wedding ring. It still says "I am taken."
Barrio Neal Band

I adore the combination of light blue and gold. Moonstone is having a major resurgence. It's uniqueness makes it a talking piece. 

This necklace adds a bit of whimsy to a simple tee. Perfect for day or great for layering with other necklaces at night over a black sweater and leather leggings. 

Cupid's arrow. Need I say more? 

I ended with just a little something for the man in your life - lest we forget that it is in the giving that we truly receive.