Monday, June 10, 2013

House Beautiful

I've got a cousin-in-law who is just one of those women. Effortlessly chic in a casual and cool kind of way. Bohemian yet modern. Relaxed but always accessorized with a piece that is truly unique. She has a lot of talents - one of them being a keen eye for interior design - and that's why she and dear friend Samantha started Clover. They see the potential in a well-loved piece and scour the US looking for items they love. I was lucky enough to stop by the studio (a totally charming refurbished barn) and got a sneak peek at her newest stock of furniture and decorative pieces. As I oohed and ahhed over everything I realized that I didn't just want to buy them - I wanted Courtney and Samantha to come and instal them too. Decoration is not my strong point. Court, want to come and redo my house???





















Get it before it's gone... Each item is one-of-a-kind and will undoubtedly add a little swagger to your interior design. Courtney and Samantha are hosting a three-day sale later this week. GO!! 

CLOVER
Cocktails and Shopping
Thursday June 13th 6pm-9pm
Also
Friday June 14th 9am-3pm
Saturday June 15th 10am-3pm
The Clover Barn
50 Pound Ridge Road
Bedford, NY
FRIENDS WELCOME!
www.cloverdesignonline.com
To book by appointment:
Courtney 914-733-2002
Samantha 914-552-3248

Friday, June 7, 2013

Wave Hello, Say Goodbye...


The Minis on Sophie's Last Day of School

I have a feeling in my heart. It's good and bad - bitter and sweet. There's a clamp around it that tightens as I type - trying to hold back tears. My bigger mini graduated from nursery school today. I know, I know - it sounds like small potatoes but to her mama it feels like a very big deal. 

This little girl - who now dresses herself, makes eggo waffles in the morning on her own, and is begging to do a sleepover at a friend's house - once needed me so much more than she does now. My heart swells with pride as I see her tackling new tasks and bravely putting herself out there in this universe. Against my warning she climbed a tree last week, fell and scraped her back terribly, and then attempted to climb the same tree the next day. I am envious of her bravery. I am in love with her ever-evolving soul. But I am also so sad that she is growing up so quickly. 

I tease her regularly and tell her she once promised me she would never grow up. She giggles and says, "Mom, it's not my fault. It's my body that just grows on its own. I don't tell it to." Oh little body of Emma Read Pless - please do pause in this precious instant and allow me to really enjoy one last summer with this "four and three-quarters" year old girl. I just need a little more time. 

The Graduate and Her Very Proud Mother

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Just Flow

Oh yoga - how I had missed you... Today I am very grateful for Janel - a yogi, an inspiration, a new friend, and a teacher. I thank her for all the great classes so far. And the music. You know I always need music. It makes everything flow. Even if you skip the yoga - be sure to enjoy the music. I'm loving her yoga playlist at the end of this post. Meet Janel Alexander and check out her schedule here. Her classes are so worth it. 



Q&A with Janel Alexander


Why did you turn to being a yoga instructor as your "second career"?
 


I got certified to teach almost 8 years ago. But back then I felt not at all ready to actually be in front of others teaching - yikes! I went away - had two kids, fulfilled my career aspirations in fashion, and moved out of the city I loved. I left New York City passionately kicking and screaming. Then in the suburbs teaching became the way it all started to make sense for me as my second life phase. Sometimes you really do have to let something be until you and your life are ready to embrace it. I try to incorporate a similar message into my life off the mat!



What has doing yoga brought to your life? 

Perspective, a desire to relax, and a fascination with the human body and how strong it can be if you take care of it.


What do you try and deliver to each person that takes a class with you? 

I try to deliver as much of a personal connection as I have received through my own teachers. I am a bit of an introvert so music, verbal alignment cues, and the power of touch are all ways that I try to connect with students. Nothing feels more fulfilling than watching students walk out with a smile. More recently, I have been bringing a degree of humbleness to my own practice. My teachers have taught me to see the difference between "the full pose/hand to floor, neck to shoulder, etc." and getting the true benefits of poses and the flow. So what if you can't reach your hand to the ground or your knee to your nose - that's not the point!! I have been trying to instill this same sense of "backing off" in my own life and in my classes. We live in a society where perfection is the benchmark so we tend to overshoot to achieve that. I don't want to miss the good stuff in the middle. Enjoy the journey and experience the middle for a while.


Music to Her Ears - Janel's Top 5 Yoga Picks

Bon Iver - Blood Bank 
(Pretty much anything from Bon Iver is perfectly paired with a Vinyasa.)

East Forest - Grandmother Sphere
(They're playing in VT when I go to Wanderlust in a few weeks and can't wait!!)

Fleetwood Mac - Landslide
(Classic Bohemian Love)

Buena Vista Social Club - Chan Chan
(I have dreams of being on a beach in Brazil or Mexico when I hear this song.)

Carla Bruni - Le Ciel dans une Chambre 
(If it's good enough for France...)

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Tri and Tri and Tri

Have you been telling yourself you are going to get back to the gym and that start date keeps getting postponed? A little extra "baby" weight you just can't shake? A "handful" of lovin' in your torso region that you can't seem to part with? Any interest in showing your kids that Mommy and Daddy can still kick ass? If you answered yes to any of these questions - here is your chance. This year on July 28 a brave team of men and women will be doing the Greenwich Triathlon and we want you to join us! You DO NOT need to be a trained triathlete or really any kind of athlete at all. Come on out. It's going to be legit.

Two years ago a friend who always inspires me convinced me a week before the Traithlon that we should do it and prove to ourselves that we were moms who could still be a part of the game. We road down to Todd's Point in pouring rain at 5am that Sunday morning - she on her cruiser with a basket and me in a regular old bikini and t-shirt. It was ugly but we did it and proud we did feel. Then last year a team of more than fifteen of us decided in late spring that we were going to do the Tri. Our team was called Tough Girls Tri and it was AWESOME! We stressed, we struggled, we swam, and cycled. It was a big sweaty mess, but let me tell you - as we rode into Todd's Point after completing the swim and bike and saw our children's faces beaming as they cheered us on - it was so worth every ounce of sweat and pain. The extra added bonus? As a team we raised $5000 for charity.

The basics: It's a 1/2 mile swim in the Sound off Todd's Point, a 15 mile bike ride over and back to Cos Cob, and then a 3 mile run around the point. Sure the swim is brutal and many of us thought we were going to drown last year but we buddied up and made it. The bike ride - yup our buns were burning for days to follow. And that run? Holy smokes were our faces red! But again - we ALL finished. And finishing means winning in my books.  


Team ribbons made us easy to spot on the road.

Prepped and ready the night before!

The sweetest little note from my hubby as I headed out bright and early.


The Young Spectators

Our BIG Fans

Gaga rocking the ride.

Quick pit stop for some love from the minis!

Check out those guns on Mrs. Custar!

Andra and Graham crushing it!

Me, not so much.

The Proud Competitors

So there you have it. It is going to be one heck of a day - rain or shine - so save the date! Check out this link to sign up online or head on over to Threads and Treads in Greenwich to sign up in person. Mickey Yardis and his son Matt are great and they run just about every race in town. They are always happy to answer any questions about the event. 




In the next few weeks I will be doing a series of posts about swimming in open water, training for races, and buying the correct supplies (bikes included). First up - Triathlon Coach and Certified Personal Trainer Mike Christie walks us through the basics of training for a Tri. Get ready! Game on!
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Q&A with Mike Christie, Triathlon Trainer for ESH Tri

What is a sprint triathlon?

The Sprint triathlon is an event that consists of a 750 meter swim (usually open water), 20 kilometer bike, and 5 kilometer run. It is the shortest of the triathlon events and the event that people new to the sport normally do first. 

What do people say is the hardest part? Swim, ride, or race?

Most triathlon competitors say that the swim is the hardest. The reason is the large majority of adults either never learned to swim or have never learned to swim for speed and endurance. It is the part of the triathlon that causes the greatest stress for newcomers to the sport. This can be easliy fixed by hiring a swim coach and learning proper swim mechanics. 

For the person who is in decent shape (hitting the gym 2-3 times a week) how do you train for a sprint triathlon when you have 8 weeks to get ready? How much biking, swimming, and running do you really need to do?

Training for a Sprint triathlon is not an overwhelming task but it does require some planning and organization. Proper training schedules will consist of "Build" weeks and "Transition" weeks. The build weeks are designed to build one's strength and endurance for each discipline. The max number of hours for a build week is about 8 hours of training. Transition weeks are for rest and recovery. The number of hours for a transition week is typically about 4 hours of training. Since the bike is the longest part of the race, the athlete needs to spend more time cycling than swimming and running. 

What is the safest way to practice swimming in open water? Along the shore or out and back?

Along shore. This way if you get in trouble, you are not far from shore. Do not go into open water without people around. Even the most experienced swimmers can get into trouble. 

What is the trick to getting the most out of your pedaling? Do you pedal downhill or glide? Should you push with your heels or toes? When do you change gears?

The recommended way to pedal is with your heels down on the "down stroke" and your toes down on the "up stroke". This will give you the most power. The best way to ride the hills is easy up and hard down. Never glide downhill when training or racing. This is where you pick up time.

What's the best thing to wear so that you have easy transitions between water, bike, and run?


A suit made specifically for triathlon is best. They come as a top and bottom or a singlet which is a one piece suit. Avoid loose fitting clothing and fabrics that absorb and hold water. 

Day before and of the race what should you eat for optimum energy?


Carbohydrates are recommended because this will fuel your tank. We have about 2 hours worth of usable glycogen in our bodies before we need refueling. Pasta, breads, rice, sweet potatoes are great to eat the day before. Stay away from high fiber foods and avoid eating a heavy meal right before bed. Drink water and sports drinks to get fully hydrated. Avoid alcohol the day before as this will dehydrate you. 

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We can DO this!!! Think about it. You won't regret it.

Stay tuned because we are going to do a "Beach Course" with Mike in the next few weeks where he will coach us on swimming in open water, biking, and running. Email me at lindleypless@gmail.com if you want to join the team and get regular updates!

To contact Mike with questions or to set up a training session: 

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Baby Boon!

This gadget was shown to me today and it is just too good not to share immediately. If you have a baby - you need it. I believe that "pouch baby food" is the best parenting invention to hit the market in the last 4 years. This spoon attachment just makes it that much more civilized



And for those of you who use other brands of baby food - their original Boon Squirt Spoon is pretty darn cool too. It's great for those on the go feedings at the beach, on the playground, in hotels, on airplanes... 


Doesn't every parent appreciate the little things that make our lives easier? I think so.